Nora Ephron was married to her first husband, then divorced after 9 years. She also seemed to choose men, over and over again, who couldn't keep their hands off of women who weren't their wives. She married three different men, and, if you read her bio or some of her essays, you'll realize quickly that she was gung-ho about getting married, but never quite figured out the secret to staying married. Nora Ephron, the writer of Heartburn, must not have had an annoying relative from Brooklyn to scare her straight. Your partner's bad habits do NOT change, and they do, in fact, continue at the same level or increase. I did marry him, and I don't regret it, but, as much as I hate to admit it, the old bitch from Brooklyn was right. Every bad habit he has, he'll do it the same or more, so don't marry him unless you accept that you're marrying the bad behavior, too.”
he will continue to do that, and he'll do it even more. Look at him and think of every bad habit he has, because whatever he does. She then pointed dramatically to my future husband and said in a very loud voice, “You see him? You see this man you want to marry? Well, look at him now, honey. When we gathered in the living room late in the evening to make a toast to our future marriage, one of the Brooklyn relatives came over and grabbed me by the shoulders and turned me to face everyone in the room. The night before I got married, my future in-laws hosted a rehearsal dinner for our wedding party and our out-of-town guests.
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